Master

The word Master, what springs to mind when i am asked to blog about it?

i often write this word or use it in my everyday life , about the Man that owns me , because i gave Him my submission. No one forced me to do this , i did it off of my own back , and have never regretted a moment of that decision. My best definition of my idea of  a Master would be the poem i am a dominant man

I am a dominant man. I am just that.

I am not dominant because of any superiority on my part.

Not because I feel I am more intelligent, or wiser.

I am not dominant because of the strength or mass of my body.

I am not, nor would I want to be dominant with all women.

Yet to you, I am Master.

I am your Master only after earning your trust and I embrace your
submissiveness.

I have looked into your heart and mind and clearly see your desires and passions.

You have thrown away your fears and inhibitions.

You tell me of the needs of your heart and body.

You have given me total access to your soul, and I accept the responsibility and honor.

You are a woman. You are not weak or inferior because of it.

You are a treasure to be cherished. We are not equal.

I have the strength of body and mind and the instinctive need to protect, possess, defend and provide for you.

You are a woman and instinctively stronger of will and heart.

Your belief in me gives me courage and direction.

Your strength disperses my doubt.

Your needs and desires encourage and give purpose to my efforts.

We are not equal. We are halves of a whole.

We compliment each other and make each other complete.

My desire to dominate you is instinctive.

It is not to degrade you nor is it degrading to you because you are secure in being totally feminine.

We each recognize and accept our worth, and our need for someone to trust and fulfill our needs.

You are sure, strong and proud in your womanhood.

You do not submit as acceptance of inferiority, but from strength and passion.

You expect a man to stand strong and be a man.

You desire and flourish in the strength and control of a man.

In return you present control of your body, unqualified trust and honesty,

and the faithfulness of your heart. You submit because I have earned your trust.

Because I have opened my heart and soul to you.

Because I have listened to your words with my ears and heart and have learned to anticipate your needs and emotions.

And because I have proved worthy in your eyes, you have given me the only true treasure of life: you have given me dominance over you.

What you give is not abnormal, but pure, natural and the rarest gift a woman could give a man.

You have given me complete and unshakable assurance of your commitment to me.

Your submissiveness is a magnificent gift and sacred responsibility.

I accept this from you with humility and joy.

I understand the rarity and purity of this gift.

I recognize it is your body and soul, your heart and mind.

I dominate you only because you have allowed it.

I dominate only because you have allowed me to and when I see your body kneel before me, in my mind and heart you are raised above all other women, and all the treasures of the earth.

What you give freely can not in reality be bought.

~ Author Unknown ~

Every time i read this poem it makes my flesh tingle, for it is as i said above my reflection on what  You my Master are to me. i do not believe that i am inferior to you , as the poem says, nor am i weaker when i submit to You because i chose to allow You to dominate me.i still have my ideals wants and needs inside of me......At the same time i do not put You on a pedestal , i know that at times You will get it wrong, the same as i did before i met You and i love and trust You all the more for reaching out and being able to correct those wrongs before the cracks that they make become to deep. 
It does not also mean that because You are my Master i am Your doormat and You can walk over me and my feelings with no thought or consideration, although happily i never have thought or known You to do this to me, and always Your decisions have been what You have known and believed to be right for me. You have also given me the right to voice an opinion if i think that there is something that might not have been looked at in the equation. (Maybe sometimes i am a little cheeky with this voice, and yet i do not mean to be). Because i know that i can trust You, and that You love me , i know that i am safe to voice my opinions ( at the right time).
Some people might see O/our relationship as You being bossy or chauvinistic, because of the equal opportunities that the modern day society has pushed for but i had a choice whether i wanted this, and it was made wisely. There is nothing more relaxing and comforting than knowing that the Man you are with does His best for the family and for me . We as a whole are cherished and looked after to the best of Your abilities. i don't think that a vanilla person would understand my craving for pain the way that You do, nor do i think that i would be able to trust them to dole it out to me, so i didn't get to carried away.

In short in my eyes , anyone with a little knowledge can do a scene and have kinky sex , yes it is a part in ways of the path we walk on in this life, but You my Master  (to me) are more than that. There was alot to be said for Domestic Discipline in the olden days and when a Man was the head of his house , and i guess that is what my Master is, a Man i have given my Authority  to act in my best interests.
Thank you for allowing me to call You this and for the care that You give our family and me and so many others besides .. i love You. 
saffy
xx



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