Kenzie's spanking questions... thanks they made me smile.

1.) Was there a certain event from your life, that sparked the spanking interest? If so, feel free to share:

Not that i can remember. 

2.) What do you most often call your HOH/Spanker? (Sir, Master, etc.)

 Bear or Master depending on who is about . ( we came up with Bear because i felt so safe with him like a giant teddy bear, and it is a non offensive term to use when there are nilla people about .

3.) What does your HOH/Spanker most often call you? (Young Lady, Girl, etc)

custard, girl or on the very odd occasion my real name ... depends who is about. 

4.) We're building a big spanko bonfire, which one implement are you bringing to toss in?

As much as i would like to say an implement , i am not allowed to ( i made a promise before he moved in never to bin, burn or get rid of any equipment before he moved in , when i jokingly said i was going to burn  some of the toys we had, when he wasn't there ) But if i hadnt have made that promise it would be clover clamps... they do get lost loads :D .

5.) We all know how many punishments there are to choose from; spanking, lecturing, corner time, etc.. but what about rewards? Do you have a favorite 'reward' that is used? If not, what's something you'd like used as a reward?

My favourite reward is Him running me a hot bath with some bath oils in it and just being able to have float time  while He cooks dinner. 

6.) What's that one phrase, that when it's used, you know you're in trouble?

 

Its not a phrase it is an eyebrow raising up while the other one remains still....and a big sigh.... 

7.) What's something you'd like to cross off your spanking bucket list? Being shy is not an option here people. ;)

Spanks on a mountain top... don't ask why, it just appeals .

8.) Someone comes to you, and says they just started practicing domestic discipline. What's the biggest piece of advice you can give them?

We are all different , dont think that your journey will be the same as anyone elses, or the same as the bdsm films/books you might have read... enjoy it and always remember why you entered the lifestyle. 

9.) Where is the craziest place you've been spanked?

the middle of a busy department store with a frying pan that He had decided to buy... just to see if it had a good smackability to it. 

10.) We talked about a spanking bucket list, now let's get a little more into it.. what about a BDSM style bucket list? What's something you'd like to cross off of that?

Probably going away for a week in one of those specially designed houses , so we could just have a private weekend of play and use equipment that we dont have and best of all not be disturned by family lol.

11.) Is there a punishment you thought you'd never try, but ended up trying and finding effective?

Does this have to be answered................(ok it would be having my pc time taken from me, hopefully this is small enough for him not to be able to read )

12.) What is something you wish you knew before you started DD/TTWD?

Communication can save allot of sore red bums (silence isnt always golden) 

13.) If you could take a break from one rule, for one week, which rule would it be?

 i wouldn't want to...the rule is there to keep me safe and as much as i loathe it at times.... i can also respect and accept it.

14.) This might sound like a no brainer at first, but really think about it. If you could only have one sort of spanking in your dynamic, would you rather it be discipline or fun?

Discipline. there are other ways to have fun...muhahahahaha

15.) If your HOH/Spanker messed up, and offered to let you spank them, would you? Why/Why not?

No, because we all make mistakes, i never get punished for a genuine mistake and i wouldn't do it to Him if He did.. we are both human. 

16.) What is your favorite form of aftercare?

my safe spot under His arm and the masses of cuddles i get. 

17.) How was DD/spanking brought up to you, or how did you bring it up to your partner?

i  replied to His advert on an internet site.. and so it didn't really need to be brought up as it was a BDSM one. 

18.) If your spanker could use only one implement from here on out, what would they use?

His hand... it is always with Him 

19.) Do you have a favorite pair of panties to wear when you know you're going to be spanked? If so, what are they?

i am not allowed panties with spanks ... so.. no

20.) Unfortunately/fortunately (depending on how you look at it) mind reading hasn't yet been perfected. What's something you want your HOH/Dom/Spanker to know? (For example, don't be afraid to spank harder, or something along those lines.) Don't be afraid, spill!
Dont be afraid to take me deeper i wont break :P *Bonus Question (just because it's fun)- Is there a picture (spanking, dd, Ds, etc related) that you just really love? If so, let's see it!*

the light of a candle is never lessened by lighting another .